A page from an old Boy Scout manual that I found online:

If you purchased My your masturbation habit clip, you’ll know where I’m coming from with this.

“There are boys who do not let nature have it’s own way with them but cause emissions themselves”

Um yeah, like the GROWN ‘boys’ who buy My clips! 😂 😉

“This may do no physical harm, but cause them to worry.”  😆   (boys, were you ‘worried’ when you first started stroking?)

Because if you were….

“Any real boy (oh goodness, the “real” stuff again) knows that anything that causes him to worry should be avoided or overcome.”

Hmm… forget about dating then!   Because if a little masturbation worries you, Women will do you in!  😜

“Get a REAL job”

Let Me get this out of the way first….


Okay, that’s done. So where is this coming from? Well I’ve read it a few times recently  in comment sections on various sites when the topic/article was about someone who didn’t have a traditional 9-5 job. I’ve even heard it Myself before, years ago, when I had My lingerie paysite. (By an angry male, no surprise.)

I always have to laugh because I think “If this isn’t a *real job*, could you pretty please tell the IRS that so they can give Me back thousands of dollars that I’ve paid in taxes over the years?” Thanks. 😘

Define “real job”?   One where you have to get up early in the morning, drive to a office somewhere, probably in rush hour traffic, work a set amount of hours every day, answer to a boss (who may or may not have no fucking clue about the work you do, therefore is pretty fucking useless as a boss….lol), have to ask to time off (and it might not always be granted) and a whole slew of other things.

I know a lot of people who have “real jobs” and are fucking miserable. And I’m willing to bet the people who leave the “get a real job” comments fall into that category. It’s almost like saying “I’m miserable and you should be too damn it! How DARE you do something you enjoy and get paid for it.”

Why must ‘working’ be equated with misery? And why, if someone chooses to do something outside of the norm are some people bothered by that? We spend a good deal of our lives working, wouldn’t it be great if it was doing something you truly enjoyed? It’s almost as if these people think it’s ‘cheating’ in some way.

I’ve been there. Years and years ago before I became self-employed, I did the 9-5 job thing and was miserable for various reasons (office politics bullshit). But I didn’t hate on people who were self-employed, I wanted to become one Myself. I’ve always been a driven person and I live to make things happen. I could bitch and whine and be miserable or….I could take a risk and try and that’s what I did.

I have to tell you, one of the things that changed My life the MOST was becoming self-employed. I very much so appreciate My life and the opportunities I’ve had and created. But I also feel like life is too short and too precious to waste it being unhappy. Sometimes I feel like some people act like they are powerless to change their life for the better and nothing could be further from the truth. It all starts in your head and what you tell yourself….

Couch panini!!

–the sheet mask!  hahahaha

–couch panini  😂

–“tired from my nap”  (been there….lol)

–“no bra…..ever”  🤣  (Wait….”ever”?  Nope.)

–“My fitbit says I’m dead”  😆

–“because I can’t just put my naked butt on the couch”

+ Kate Mckinnon  😍

Payment problems on Clips4Sale

One of My regular customers just alerted Me to some problems he’s having with buying My clips on Clips4Sale for the last few days. Is anyone else having this problem??  he said something like the ‘page store ordering area’ is blocked after he hits the ‘Submit Order Button’. And he’s tried different browsers and it’s the same problem and he has contacted Clips4Sale support to let them know of the problem. IF you are having this same issue, contact C4S support to let them know!  They have Live Chat support or you can open a ticket. I always use Live Chat because I am too impatient to wait for a reply. lol

Good boy jack for bringing this to My attention! 😊


I freakin’ LOVED Mr.Rogers when I was a kid.  😊

My favorite part was always when the trolley went to the Neighborhood of Make Believe.

“It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood, a beautiful day in the neighborhood. Won’t you be mine? Won’t you be mine”  

(Hmmm….quick Google search and I realize that I had those lyrics wrong!  lol  Let’s try this again….)

“It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood. A beautiful day for a neighbor. Could you be mine? Would you be mine?”

(Dlisted, of course).

SNOW for the First day of Spring

Ugh! I am SO over the white stuff! 🚫 ❄  I am looking forward to sleeping with the windows open again. And last night, before I drifted off to sleep, I was thinking about My neighbors lilac bushes and how I LOVE that smell. I am so ready for SPRING and yet looking out of My window and snow is softly falling. *sigh* Granted it is a small amount, not giant flakes, but still…..